This is the first part in a collaboration between this blog and the lovely Mr EE who, aside from being an expat parent himself, is also an expert on education for expat children both in a wide range of different international schools and in boarding schools in the UK. He writes extensively on education and we thought we would republish some of his work here in a new section of the blog in the hope it will be of interest to other expats searching for the right schooling solutions for their children.
We are aiming to publish some original articles aimed more towards the needs of the expat parent so if you have any requests for future articles please let us know through the comments below or by email to ersatzexpat@gmail.com and Mr EE will do his best to accommodate the request in the future.
Protected From Everything But Learning Nothing? Why Schools Must Embrace, Not Avoid, Risk.
Modern schools have become highly risk adverse environments, a trend which has been building for some years. Both in and out of the classroom, our students are being presented with as risk-free an environment as possible, a place where they are highly unlikely to be hurt, physically or emotionally, and face few consequences for their actions which actually matter. This has caused noticeable changes in the now-expected appendence of schools, such as redesigned playgrounds with soft-fall surfaces, anti-scratch railings and few moving parts, or the proliferation of marked tripping hazards on stairs. Perhaps more insidious is the change in the culture of many schools, where competition against peers, whether academically or through sports has become less and less common: everyone is encouraged to ‘be a winner’, regardless of actual achievement. But does a childhood spent in such a controlled and artificial environment provide the exposure and experiences which let students learn the lessons that will enable them to function effectively as adults in a globally mobile, competitive world? Is this cushion from reality actually harming our children’s development?
An increasing body of research and opinion would suggest that the answer to this question is yes, and that this conclusion has its basis in neuroscience. Advances in neuro-imaging techniques show that experiences of all kinds alter the physical structure and pathways of the brain, so it is fair to say that experience affects the brain but equally, the brain affects experience. Worryingly for our children trapped in the risk-free bubble, early deprivation can limit cognitive and emotional potential, whilst positive, attuned stimulation enhances the individual’s potential. A child with limited
exposure to risk and challenge when young will be find it harder to cope with
the challenges of a normal adult life, leading to anxiety and depression,
whilst over exposure can be equally damaging in creating a thrill-seeking
daredevil who pushes themselves to dangerous extremes in order to stay sane. Aided by our experience and knowledge of
child development, phycology and neuroscience, it is entirely possible for
schools to help guide children towards the goal of becoming thoughtful and
considered risk-takers, rather that falling to the extremes of the risk-adverse
or adrenalin junkie.
Risk-taking is a key developmental factor for any child, and schools need to understand its significance as a teaching experience for students. Via the modelling, nurturing and teaching of good attitudes towards risk by adults, children will be better prepared to meet life's challenges. Positive risk-taking behaviour involves actions or activities which, precipitated by consideration and thoughtfulness, provide a step towards the transition point between safety and danger. Risk-taking, like other skills, needs to be learned and practiced over time, and can be summarised down to four essential steps outlined below:
Play that is too safe is not satisfying for long. |
Risk-taking is a key developmental factor for any child, and schools need to understand its significance as a teaching experience for students. Via the modelling, nurturing and teaching of good attitudes towards risk by adults, children will be better prepared to meet life's challenges. Positive risk-taking behaviour involves actions or activities which, precipitated by consideration and thoughtfulness, provide a step towards the transition point between safety and danger. Risk-taking, like other skills, needs to be learned and practiced over time, and can be summarised down to four essential steps outlined below:
- Identification: of the nature of the risk, be it physical, emotional, social or intellectual
- Awareness: of potential benefits and dangers and the range of possible actions
- Consideration: thinking through the impact of one's actions
- Evaluation: reflecting on the impact after the decision has been taken.
If we accept that striving to become risk-aware is part of child development and thus within the remit of a school's operations, then how can the school learn to embrace rather than reject risk in a practical fashion?
Don't wrap your children in cotton wool! |
Exposure to a
sense of adventure should start young, but need not take place away from
schools; in fact, for the very young, it is perhaps better it does not. Play provides opportunities for children to
learn self-regulation of their own emotions and behaviour: those deprived from
play opportunities show little ability to do.
Normal patterns of play and the locations where it takes place need to
provide opportunities for children to consider and take risks. Often, when a group of children play in a
planned playground, the strongest child becomes the leader, whereas in a
natural or unstructured setting such as woodland, the more inventive and
intelligent child comes to the fore. As
before, the desired eventual outcome of play is independent activity, where
they children have the space and parents have the bravery to let their children
go and experience the world for themselves.
Control over this aspect of their lives helps children develop the
skills of teamwork and leadership. The
degree of adult control and supervision must reduce, slowly but inevitably, to
allow the children more freedom to manage and control themselves and their
relationships.
Risk comes in many forms |
The right school will encourage your child to take a leap. |
Originally published October 2015
What do you think? Have you noticed differing attitudes to risk between schools in different postings? Does your current school have the balance right or do they need to improve their attitude to risk?
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For research for a blog post years ago I was looking up information about playing conkers. Traditional British school playground game that I grew up with. I was shocked and amazed to read that the game has been pretty much banned for safety reasons. Even looking back now if you asked me what the biggest risk of my childhood was it certainly wasn't playing conkers in school...... and that of course is the tip of the iceberg.
ReplyDeleteWhen I see what my children are doing on their Dutch school playground I know that they probably wouldn't be doing the same in an English school. There are accidents, there's risk but doesn't there have to be an element of that growing up? Nothing life threatening of course but the risk of a scrape, the risk of sticking out, the risk of failing - that's part of life. Isn't it?
Wow, I didn't know that about conkers. I just thought people didn't play it anymore. I remember the first time my British husband taught me how to play it... it was before we even had kids!
DeleteYup - I have loved conkers ever since being introduced to the game. Mind you I also used to like picking them up from the ground in famous locations and then trying to grow them at home (I am a nerd like that!).
DeleteWith risk I think one of the key elements that some schools miss these days is academic risk. I would worry about children who are brought up to be 'winners' all the time. They have to fail the odd test otherwise how will they really 'know' they have to revise and knuckle down.
DeleteThank you for sharing - a very interesting point of view! Schools back in Ukraine and Russia are still quite far from being just so protected, although, some of them started introducing safe playgrounds. #ExpatLifeLinky
ReplyDeleteI think it is a different concept of risk. I remember in Kazakhstan parents would be happy for their children to play in playgrounds I was not at all comfortable with or leave them alone from a much younger age than I would be happy with. The same parents would go crazy at the idea of children sitting on the floor during story time as it was 'unhealthy' or going out in anything less than full winter clothes at the start of spring (by which time it was already above freezing!).
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ReplyDeleteI will link to this post tomorrow for the International Weekly Roundup. The rest of the links you sent seemed to be linky parties.
Janice
Hello Janice - I am not sure that we have been in contact previously?
DeleteInteresting post. It's sort of a shame we live in such a litigious world now. One thing I noticed about many parents here when mine were babies was that they'd follow them around and wouldn't let them fall over or stumble. I'd be like... they need to learn how to get up!! But that's the way I was raised. Schools are incredibly cautious these days. My school thinks I'm a terrible mother because I won't come get my child when he has a bloody nose during school. They call and call and I just tell them that it will stop soon and that it's not unusual for him to have a bloody nose but that it WILL stop with in 5 or so minutes. Obviously I'm not happy about the bloody nose and obviously I care about the safety of my children, but it can go overboard the other way. #ExpatLifeLinky
ReplyDeleteI noticed that to some extent in the UK as well. I also find that parents take risks I just could not contemplate like walking children without reins - firstly I don't want to have to run after a child all the time and secondly bolter child +pavements +cars + bad combination. The other parents we knew thought we were being very cruel and precious to use reins but would not leave the house without arnica to treat the slightest playground bump. We have a nosebleeder child as well - she knows how to deal with it by herself and would far rather not be fussed over.
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